Telling the Truth About PowerResearch & Action Report Fall/Winter 2003 By Jean Baker Miller Many of us in this society are mixed up about power. Yet power is very real and is operating right in front of us all the time. Quite amazingly, those who have the most power in our society almost never talk about it, and, even more amazingly, they induce many of the rest of us not to recognize it, either. When I was a kid, for instance, my friends and I adored the movies. We'd go every Saturday afternoon, and for five cents we'd always see two full-length films, a cartoon, a newsreel, and an episode of an ongoing adventure story, which was almost always a Western. Every week we'd see the "bad guys," the so-called Indians, portrayed as strange-looking, fierce, uncivilized, savage murderers who were threatening the white cowboys. The theater rang with ear-shattering cries, cheers, whoops, and whistles when the cowboys hurt or killed the Native Americans.
It never occurred to us that it was the white people
who had taken power by force, stealing the
Native Americans' land and destroying their cultures,
even calling them by a false name. We absorbed
these untruths routinely every week, and I was drawn
into disparaging and even fearing these powerful,
violent people (from where I lived in the heart of
New York City). I don't remember history classes
in elementary or high school changing these images,
and I can't recall how old I was before I learned to my shock that we,
the whites, had brutally taken For various historical reasons, a dominant segment in any society tends to divide people with less power into groups by race, class, gender, sexual preference, and the like. The dominant group often gains tremendous power over the less powerful groups in economic, social, political, and cultural realms. But dominant groups do not usually say, "I have great power over your life; I want to keep it and, if possible, increase it because I'm afraid of losing any of it to you." It is important to recognize that there are different kinds of power. We use the term "power-to" to mean the ability to make a change in any situation, large or small, without restricting or forcing others. The term "power-over" we apply to situations or structures in which one group or person has more resources and privileges and more capacity to force or control others. Structural power reinforced by power-over practices obstructs growth and constructive change. Dominant groups usually manufacture false belief systems that act to perpetuate their power-over position and sustain their separation from subordinate groups. Patricia Hill Collins (1990), an African-American sociologist, discusses the impact of controlling images. She notes that dominant groups tend to create sets of images about themselves and about each of the "subordinate" groups. These controlling images are always false, yet they exert a powerful influence, holding each group in its place and maintaining the status quo. We absorb these images about others and ourselves, usually without fully realizing it, just as I absorbed the negative images of Native Americans in the Westerns I saw as a child. This is part of the way dominant groups mystify their power-over practices and entice many of us into cooperation.
As an alternative to power-over practices, Judith
Jordan (1986) and Jan Surrey (1987) have developed
the concept of mutual empowerment. Mutual
empowerment is a two-way, dynamic process in which all people in a relationship move toward
more effectiveness and power, rather than one moving
up while the other moves down. Mutual What are some ways we can encourage movement toward mutual empowerment, especially when many people have suffered trauma or severe psychological isolation as a result of interpersonal, social, and structural power-over practices? Interpersonal approaches would include:
The way to prevent or reduce power-over practices
is to increase each person's power in the relationship,
their power-in-connection rather than power that
is coercive and arising out of fear. In growth-fostering
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Walker, M. (2002a). Power and effectiveness:
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Jean Baker Miller, M.D., is the director
of the Jean Baker Miller Training Institute
at the Stone Center. This article is based
on her new working paper, the 100th in the
Stone Center's distinguished series. "Telling
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